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Have you still held hope for those folks who are always living in debts,
but still not working on thier issues...??
對那些寧願醉生夢死的活在”卡債”裡,卻不想用心去改變現況的人,
你還抱持希望想改變他們嗎??
For the issue, I really have something to say....
我真的有話想告訴他們的”家人”~~~:
He/she is an adult, and not your responsibility.
他們都是成人了,必須為所有的行為,那不是當家人的責任..
He/she is already taken advantage of you and your generosity enough!
他們己經佔盡了便宜,親朋好友也己夠經慷慨,應該幫都做過了,
If you don't set this boundary now...
如果,你們現在還不忍心畫清界線,
you'll be dealing with this issue for a long time to come,
你們即將永遠都為他們的錯在背書,他/她的困境也一樣沒解決..
and it'll only get worse....
而且,情況袛會更糟.....
所以,別再寵壞/坦護他們了,
要懂得適時放手~~
讓他們有機會自食惡果...
在自己的錯誤中學習成長..
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